Do you want to play? That’s the first thing I look for when I meet someone for the first time. My inner child shows up first. By showing joy and humor, I ask the person: Are you able to play too? For me, playing means experiencing and sharing humor and joy. It’s also my way of communicating with the universe, from a place of delight and happiness. My experience shows that my energy is contagious for those who can play too. And others? I leave them with just a little better fe

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No One Wants to Remember Trauma. "No one wants to remember trauma. In that sense, society is not much different from the victims themselves. We all want to live in a world that feels safe, controllable, and predictable, and victims remind us that this is not always the case. To understand trauma, we must overcome our natural resistance to face that reality and learn to summon the courage to listen to the testimonies of those affected by trauma."
 Bessel van der Kolk, The Body

With this blog, I give words to my experiences as a mother of a special boy, a child who stands with one foot in this world, and the other in the unseen world. Where many parents speak effortlessly about upbringing and development, it feels different for me. What my child can do, and what he is developing under my guidance, falls outside what most people consider ‘normal.’
To truly understand this, something else is required first: that you know yourself. Not superficially, b